Focus on your foundation first and work up from there.
Begin by kneeling on a folded blanket or soft wool asan. Lean forward and place the bench on your bottom and hold it in position as you sit down. This is a good way to start and usually sets up the bench perfectly. If needed you can also adjust the angle of your bench until you feel that your lower spine is in a neutral position. This means your navel is not spilling forward from an excessively curved lower back, and you are not rolling your weight rearward onto your tailbone causing your spine to become rounded. Work between these two extremes to see what feels best, and remember that it's ok to adjust the bench angle as needed. Smaller adjustments are usually better than large ones.
Now imagine that your spine is like a straight rod supporting your upper body from within, allowing your outer muscles to relax. The large outer muscles are not the ones we want to use while meditating. Good posture comes from within, and with practice will become very comfortable. Balancing the spine vertically is key to your success, but you must also use some energy to feel that you are "relaxing upward from within." Try to strike a balance between effort and relaxation.
Feel light in the spine. A feeling of heaviness suggests that you are becoming too passive. A feeling of tension suggests you are not relaxed enough.
If kneeling on a bench you'll need a place to rest your hands that supports the weight of your arms. I use a blanket that is wrapped around the lower portion of my body and make a pouch to place my hands in with my palms facing upward. Adjust the blanket so that your arms are near your hips and are supported well enough that you don't feel their weight pulling down on your shoulders. Or try putting your hands inside of a sweater, or in the pockets of a "hoody" type pull-over. Whatever you use, it should fully support the weight of your arms. Having the hands separated helps to open the chest by pointing the elbows rearward slightly. This helps to reduce the tendency to slouch forward while stimulating the energy of the heart chakra. A small amount of tension between the shoulder blades also helps to slightly open the chest. Do not arch the spine, but feel inwardly that your heart area wants to gently rise upward.
Most of us need to slide the head rearward to bring the head over the shoulders. Keep your chin level with the floor. You might want to have a friend look at your posture from the side and ask them to see if your head is centered over the shoulders and that your shoulders are centered over your hips.
Don't use what "feels comfortable" as your only guide. People often feel awkward when the spine is in alignment if they are used to having poor posture. Have a friend compare your posture to the images on our website and explain to you what they see. This will help you learn how to feel your way into good alignment on your own.
Low Back Pain Solutions
For years I suffered with extreme low back pain. I could not drive a car more than an hour or two because it was impossible for me to get comfortable. I had to lay flat and be driven for longer distances. A two hour drive often meant an evening spent laying on an ice-pack and possibly a day or more of recovery. When I started meditating I really had a hard time with lumbar and cervical pain, and pain down beneath my neck between the shoulder blades. Sitting for meditation often felt like torture. I really had to consider if I even wanted to try to get into it, because my body protested so much. You can see why I take my meditation seating so seriously!
I gained valuable understanding of my body from an exceptional physical therapist. He helped me understand the needs of my spine and spent some time working with me on how to sit in my vehicle. It turned out that after much investigation all he had me do was fold a small towel into a flattish shape and place that behind my sacrum to prevent by body from slouching too deeply into the seat. This tipped my pelvis slightly forward. It was amazing to me, how this slight alteration to the angle of my pelvis could make me so much more comfortable.
But after about 30 minutes, what at first felt great became uncomfortable. So he then had me move the folded towel up and down an inch or two at a time and this allowed my spine to stay comfortable longer. Each time the pad was placed in a new position it altered the angle of my pelvis sightly.
I eventually learned to move the towel/pad up or down BEFORE I started to get uncomfortable. Once I got into this habit I was able to drive for much longer periods. I could avoid having a painful low back by not allowing my position to stay in one place too long while sitting.
If you have low back discomfort this approach may help you to sit more comfortably on a bench or chair. At least it's worth a try. This is one way to use The Three Hour Bench. Make slight adjustments BEFORE you feel discomfort, and with practice you'll be able to avoid fatigue and go deeper in meditation.
Gently working to build strength in the abdominal's and flexibility in and around the hips and pelvis will go a long way to helping you be more comfortable.
Upper Back and Neck Pain Solutions
The best position for meditation is to have a long tall spine. If you were to view the body from the side, the canal of your ear should be nearly above the pivot point in your shoulder. This posture might seem un-natural if it's not the way you normally sit or stand, but in truth, it's probably the most healthy position for you to be in, and is what most yoga instructors or physical therapists would recommend.
Most people have relatively poor posture to begin with. Patience is the key here. It takes time and energy to get used to sitting with a tall spine. By the way, one of the benefits of meditation with proper posture is that it develops good postural habits that you'll take into the non-meditative part of your life, reducing the occurrence of spinal injury or discomfort caused by excessive curvature of the lumbar, thoracic, or cervical spine as you age.
One main reason the neck becomes strained is because many people habitually allow the head to come forward from the position stated above. This makes the muscles of the upper back and neck work extra hard and will cause pain in these regions, and also headaches.
Another main reason for neck or upper back strain is not having enough support for the weight of the hands and arms. A good sitting position allows you to rest your hands and forearms on something so that all of their weight is supported and the upper back and neck muscles are allowed to rest. Use the suggestions above in our Tips for healthier posture section and double check that your arm weight is supported, and that you are not holding any tension there.
Getting the body warm via some form of exercise and gently stretching or practicing calm yoga postures will help a lot. Focus on releasing tension in the chest, upper back, and shoulders. Strengthen but do not over stretch the neck.
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